Mars vs Venus

Men and women are different because they come from two different planets. Men are born and live on Mars while women are from Venus. This environmental difference also makes the values ​​adopted different. on Mars, which men live in, appreciate power, skill, efficiency and achievement. Everything on Mars is a reflection of these values, one of which is their clothing.

Women on this planet spend a lot of time supporting, helping and serving one another. The meaning of their life is determined by the feeling and quality of their relationship. Women on Venus experience extraordinary satisfaction by sharing and speaking from the heart .


Conscious or not men and women are different. We mistakenly assume that if our partners love us, they will react and behave in certain ways as well as the reactions and behavior we love. It turns out that this is not the case. according to John Gray, men usually offer solving problems by ignoring their feelings, men put forward ratios rather than emotions. whereas women act otherwise, women are more emotional than ratio, so women tend to spontaneously offer advice and guidance even if they are not asked. here men often complain that women always try to change men because women often give advice. As a result the person is right and finally ignores what the woman says ..


Let's look further at life on Mars. The meaning of a man is determined more by his success in achieving results (success and achievement). And these men are more satisfied if they are able to prove their own abilities, without the help of others. they are proud to do things alone. This is the characteristic of men that must be understood by women. .it means that when a woman offers advice or guidance without being asked by a man, then he considers that he does not know what to do as if he were a fool who should be helped by someone else. And men are very sensitive to this. that's why it is natural that the man rarely confides when there is a problem because he usually keeps difficulties for himself, he does not want to be considered a weak creature .

What about life on Venus? The meaning of a woman is determined by her feelings and the quality of her relationship with her partner. Women prefer to be given attention. For women, giving advice and advice is a sign of affection. if women pay attention to someone, they will tend to give constructive advice and criticism as a sign of their love and love. But women don't realize that men don't like that. be the solution for women to stop giving advice or help to men and give help if only men ask for it .

Then what about men? If only a man wants to be understood then the household is destroyed. Men also have to learn to understand women. Often women prefer to tell stories about themselves, their feelings, and hope that her husband will help her. at this point men are often impatient and immediately give advice and solutions to their wives. Actually that's not what women want. how to respect the inhabitants of Venus is to listen patiently and full of empathy and then really try to understand the feelings of his wife .

The point of this article is, for women to stop giving advice to men and give them help / advice / criticism when they ask for it. whereas for men, listen to the outpouring of women's hearts, appreciate their feelings, and don't to the point give them advice even if the advice is true ..

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